Birthday gift questionnaire

Birthday gifts go wrong when the giver is working from an old mental model — the wine they liked in college, the hobby they dropped, the size from three years ago. A short questionnaire refreshes the picture without making the recipient plan their own party gift.

When to send it

Two to three weeks before the date is ideal. Day-of asks feel like you forgot; month-early asks get lost. A single link or printed half-page is enough.

Questions to copy and paste

  1. Any allergies, dietary limits, or scents to avoid?
  2. Clothing or shoe size (if wearables are in play)?
  3. What are you into right now — hobbies, shows, collections?
  4. What do you reach for every week but never replace?
  5. Favorite snacks, drinks, or coffee order at the moment?
  6. Anything you do not want more of (clutter, candles, mugs)?
  7. Experience or item — which would you enjoy more this year?
  8. Two gift ideas under $___ that you would actually use?
  9. Anything you admire but would not buy for yourself?
  10. Best way to reach you if the giver has a quick follow-up?

Printable template or digital send

The 12-question gift questionnaire template covers the same ground in a polished layout. With imparted, you send one link; they answer on their phone; you receive a shortlist shaped to their replies and your budget — no account required on their end.

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